I am and I should be the EXCEPTION...

i heart the movie...i'd like to own a book someday...i'll always remind myself about the stories in this book whenever i'm in the same situation, again...and i'll definitely recommend the advises and stories in this book to all my friends who are so clueless!

i'm not a bitter bitch...i'll always be a hopeless romantic, i still believe in happy-endings and fairy tales. i know i'll meet someone right for me...but i'll always try to remind me of these things:

1. No matter how powerful and real your feelings may be for someone, if that person cannot fully and honestly return them and therefore actively love you back, these feelings mean nothing.
2. Being lonely ... being alone ... for many people ... sucks. I get it, I get it, I get it. But still I have to say that yes, my belief is that being with somebody who makes you feel shitty or doesn't honor the person you are is worse.
3. Life is hard enough as it is without choosing someone difficult to share it with.
4. You deserve to be with someone who is nice to you all the time.
   

this is from GIGI>>>sooooo truueeeee...

GIGI:

Girls are taught a lot of stuff growing up. If a guy punches you he likes you. Never try to trim your own bangs and someday you will meet a wonderful guy and get your very own happy ending. Every movie we see, Every story we're told implores us to wait for it, the third act twist, the unexpected declaration of love, the exception to the rule. But sometimes we're so focused on finding our happy ending we don't learn how to read the signs. How to tell from the ones who want us and the ones who don't, the ones who will stay and the ones who will leave. And maybe a happy ending doesn't include a guy, maybe... it's you, on your own, picking up the pieces and starting over, freeing yourself up for something better in the future. Maybe the happy ending is... just... moving on. Or maybe the happy ending is this, knowing after all the unreturned phone calls, broken-hearts, through the blunders and misread signals, through all the pain and embarrassment you never gave up hope.